If you’re reading this right now, I get it. You’re stuck. You can’t stop thinking about your ex. You replay every memory, every fight, every "I love you." And a big part of you believes deep down that if you just do the right thing, say the right thing, or somehow prove you’ve changed, she’ll come running back.
I know because I’ve been there.
In fact, Forget That B*tch (you can preorder it here on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F7GRVN8T) was written for exactly this moment. It’s about cutting through the noise, facing the brutal truths, and finally breaking free from the invisible chains that keep men stuck in obsession after a breakup.
But before we go there, let’s face something together. You’re chasing her because deep down, rejection burns. And worse, it breeds obsession.
Rejection and Obsession: The Trap That Keeps You Stuck
When she leaves, it hits differently for men. This isn’t about losing love — it’s about losing identity. She rejected you. And that rejection lights a fire you can’t put out.
You start obsessing. You check her social media. You replay every moment wondering where you went wrong. You convince yourself that if you just became better — richer, fitter, more charming — she’d come back.
This, brother, is ego-driven obsession, not love.
In Forget That B*tch (preorder it here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F7GRVN8T), I explain why this happens. Men biologically crave fixing problems. Rejection feels like a problem we need to solve. But chasing her doesn’t solve anything. In fact, it cements you in her mind as weak and desperate.
This is why so many guys fail post-breakup. They don’t understand that obsession is a trap, and chasing only drives her further away.
The better way? Accept the loss. Stop chasing. And start focusing on the only thing you can control: YOU.
Why Getting Her Back Isn't What You Really Want
I know what you’re thinking right now. "But I DO want her back."
No, you don’t.
You want the validation that comes with her wanting you again. You want the fantasy of the relationship, not the reality of who she was at the end. Most men don’t want her, they want their ego repaired.
This is why I offer my free ebook Fine... Here's How To Get Her Back (get your copy here: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/getherback). Not because I want you to obsess, but because reading it will show you why getting her back isn’t the solution. It’s the symptom of a deeper issue: fear of letting go.
It’s hard to admit, but here’s the truth.
Getting her back often leads to the same disaster you just escaped. The woman who left you, rejected you, and likely disrespected you isn’t magically going to change because you got a six-pack or read a few books. She will still see you through the lens of the guy she lost attraction for. And that’s a war you will never win.
The Illusion of Control: Why You Can't Fix What’s Broken
One of the harshest lessons I cover in Forget That B*tch (preorder now at https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F7GRVN8T) is the illusion of control.
You think that if you say the right thing, or play hard to get, or follow some dating coach's seven steps, that you can fix this. That you can win her back.
Wrong.
You are not in control of her emotions. You can’t logic her back into loving you. You can’t alpha your way back into her heart once she’s decided you’re not it anymore.
Every attempt to do so only makes you look weaker.
And here’s what no one tells you: she will TEST you, even if she does come back. The woman you get back is not the woman you lost — she is the woman who will now view you as "that guy who begged me back." She will test, push, and challenge you forever.
You will be on probation for life. That’s no way to live, and it certainly isn’t attractive.
Letting Go: The Only Real Path to Freedom
So what do you do?
You let go.
You stop focusing on her and start focusing on yourself. You stop obsessing about her next move and start planning yours. You stop asking, "Will she come back?" and start asking, "How do I become a man who doesn’t care if she does?"
This is the core message of Forget That B*tch (available soon on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F7GRVN8T). It’s not about hating women or being bitter. It’s about finally realizing that life is too short to chase validation from someone who already made the decision to leave.
It’s about reclaiming your masculine edge. About becoming the man who attracts new, high-quality women naturally because you are grounded, focused, and living for yourself.
This is where true confidence comes from. Not from manipulating your way back into her bed. But from knowing, deep in your bones, that your life is better without her — and if she ever realizes her mistake, you won’t even care anymore.
Rebuilding After the Breakup: Your Mission Starts Now
When I say "forget her," I don’t mean wipe your memory clean. I mean stop letting her control your present.
You need a mission. You need goals. You need to build a life so amazing that the thought of her becomes irrelevant.
That’s where my free ebook Fine... Here's How To Get Her Back comes in (grab it here: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/getherback). Not because I want you to scheme to win her back — but because that book will show you why letting go is the real flex. Why not giving a damn is the ultimate power move.
And if you’re ready to go deeper, preorder Forget That B*tch on Amazon (https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F7GRVN8T). This book is your roadmap out of obsession and into freedom. It’s everything I wish someone had handed me after my own painful breakup.
You deserve to move on. You deserve to stop caring. You deserve to be free.
Final Thoughts: From Obsession to Freedom
If you made it this far, you already know what I’m about to say.
She’s gone. And that’s okay.
What matters now is not what she thinks. Not whether she’ll come back. Not whether you can “win” this imaginary game.
What matters is YOU. The man you are today, and the man you are becoming.
When you embrace this mindset — when you finally say "Forget That B*tch" and mean it — everything changes.
You get your power back. You get your life back. And when the right woman comes along, you’ll know she’s with you not because you begged or manipulated — but because you didn’t need her at all.
So do the right thing.
Get my free ebook Fine... Here's How To Get Her Back (https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/getherback) and read it today. Learn exactly why chasing her is the worst thing you can do.
Then preorder Forget That B*tch right here (https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F7GRVN8T) so you’re ready when the full roadmap drops this June.
Your future is not behind you, brother. It’s ahead.
Start living like it.
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