The Missing Doesn’t Mean You’re Meant To Be
If you’re waking up each day with your ex on your mind, checking your phone hoping she texted, or replaying old memories that cut like a knife, I know exactly how you feel. That ache in your chest? It’s real. But it doesn’t mean you’re still supposed to be with her. It means your emotional operating system is in overload. I wrote Forget That B*tch—available now on Amazon and Audible—because I lived this exact cycle. I know how hard it is to miss someone and still know deep down that going back would only make things worse.
You’re Not Craving Her—You’re Craving Comfort
Every time you feel that pull toward your ex, it’s not really about her. It’s about the comfort, the validation, the sense of belonging you had when you were with her. When a man feels lost, the brain naturally gravitates toward the last place he felt seen. But here’s the twist: just because a place feels familiar doesn’t mean it’s safe. That’s why I wrote a free ebook called Fine... Here's How To Get Her Back. It’ll show you exactly what you’d need to do to re-attract her—but more importantly, it’ll show you why doing that might keep you trapped.
The Memory Loop Is Lying To You
When you miss your ex every day, your brain starts romanticizing her. You focus on the best moments, the laughter, the intimacy, the times she made you feel like a king. But that’s not the full picture, is it? You’re ignoring the stress, the mixed signals, the times she left you feeling confused or not enough. In Forget That B*tch, I call this the highlight reel illusion. It’s what keeps you stuck longing for a version of her that never really existed.
The Daily Pain Is a Signal, Not a Sentence
That tight feeling in your chest when you miss her? It’s not a curse. It’s a signal. Your body is telling you it’s time to focus inward. Your energy is begging for redirection. When I wrote Forget That B*tch, I made sure to pack it with daily tools to shift that pain into purpose. Because you’re not broken—you’re just pointing your energy in the wrong direction.
Don’t Confuse Emotion With Truth
Just because you feel like she’s the one doesn’t mean she is. Just because you miss her doesn’t mean you need her back. Emotions can be misleading. Especially after a breakup. You can miss someone who was wrong for you. You can love someone who made you feel small. And that’s the kind of emotional distortion I help you untangle in the book.
What To Do Instead of Reaching Out
The urge to text her, check her feed, or "just say hi" might feel harmless. But it re-opens the wound every time. You’re not building closure—you’re building dependency. In Forget That B*tch, I give you a roadmap for replacing those urges with actions that actually move you forward. No fluffy advice. No pop psychology. Just real tactics from a guy who’s been through it.
Stop Measuring Your Healing By Time
I hear guys say this all the time: “It’s been six months and I still miss her.” Healing isn’t measured in days—it’s measured in decisions. The real question isn’t how long it’s been since the breakup. The question is: what have you done differently? How have you shifted your identity? What boundaries have you reinforced? This is the kind of work I had to do to rebuild myself—and it’s all inside Forget That B*tch.
Who You Become Matters More Than Who You Lost
You miss her because you haven’t fully met the man you’re becoming. That’s the truth most guys don’t want to face. We cling to old versions of ourselves tied to women who no longer fit where we’re headed. But you can’t ascend by looking backwards. My book isn’t just about forgetting her. It’s about remembering you—the version of you who doesn’t need her validation to feel alive.
You’re Allowed To Feel It—But Don’t Feed It
Letting go doesn’t mean pretending you don’t care. You can cry. You can get angry. You can grieve. But don’t feed the sadness. Don’t spiral in it. Don’t set up camp in your pain. Let it pass through you like a wave, not a home you live in. I give you the play-by-play in Forget That B*tch for how to feel without falling apart.
Take Back Your Power Today
If you’re tired of waking up every morning with her on your mind, take the first step now. Download my free ebook Fine... Here's How To Get Her Back. Read it. Let it challenge your assumptions. Then grab your copy of Forget That B*tch. It’s the full system for turning heartbreak into fuel. You don’t have to stay stuck. You don’t have to miss her forever. But you do have to take action.
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